Getting Your Toddler Ready for Preschool
Starting preschool is a big step for both parents and kids. At Kia Mena Montessori Preschool in Beckenham, London, we know how exciting and sometimes scary this change can be. That’s why we’ve put together some easy tips to help make this transition smooth and happy for your little one.
Learn About the Preschool
Visit the School Together
Before your child starts school, it’s helpful to show them what the preschool looks like. You can:
- Take a tour: Visit Kia Mena Montessori and let your child see the classrooms, meet the teachers, and check out the playground.
- Meet the staff: Say hello to the people who will be caring for your child every day.
- Check the daily routine: Learn about the schedule—like when they read stories, do art, or play outside.
Use Pictures to Help
- Take photos: Snap some pictures of the classroom and playground to show your child at home.
- Talk about it: Show them where they’ll eat snacks, read books, and play with new friends.
Helping Your Child Feel Good About Preschool
Talk Positively About School
- Stay positive: Share how fun school will be, talk about all the games, toys, and stories they’ll enjoy.
- Ease worries: If your child is nervous, remind them that it’s okay to feel that way. You’ll be back to pick them up!
Play “Pretend School”
- Pretend at home: Use dolls or stuffed animals to act out things like circle time or snack breaks.
- Make it fun: Pretend to pack a bag, take turns, or share toys, just like they will at school.
Read Books About Preschool
Reading books is a fun and easy way to help your child understand what preschool will be like. Many great books talk about the first day of school and what to expect. You can find them at your library or from stores like Waterstones or Amazon.
Get into a Daily Routine
Set a Schedule at Home
- Same bedtime and wake-up time: A regular sleep routine helps kids feel ready for school.
- Practice mealtimes: Start having meals at the same times they will eat at school.
Get Used to Morning Routines
- Get dressed for practice: Let your child try getting ready like it’s a school day.
- Pack a bag: Practice packing and unpacking a backpack so they know what to do.
Help Your Child Make Friends
Set Up Playdates
- Play with other children: Organize playdates to help your child learn to share and take turns.
- Try group activities: Let them play games where everyone works together.
Teach Sharing and Turn-Taking
- Use games: Board games or simple toys can help teach important skills like waiting their turn.
- Give praise: Encourage and celebrate when they share or play kindly.
Help Them Feel Independent
Let Them Try Things on Their Own
- Dressing themselves: Show your child how to zip up their coat or put on shoes.
- Wash hands and eat neatly: Practice things like using a spoon or washing hands after using the toilet.
Let Them Make Small Choices
- Pick their clothes: Let your child choose between two outfits.
- Choose their snack: This helps them feel more confident and in control.
Talk with the Teachers
Build a Good Relationship
- Meet teachers: Attend open houses or orientations to get to know the staff.
- Share important info: Let teachers know about your child’s favorite toys or any special needs they have.
Stay Involved
- Read newsletters: Stay up-to-date with school events and activities.
- Join in: Volunteer for class events if you can. It shows your child school is important and fun!
Getting Ready for the First Day
What to Pack
- Extra clothes: In case of spills or accidents.
- Comfort item: A small blanket or toy can help with nerves.
- Label everything: This helps prevent items from getting lost.
Create a Goodbye Routine
- Say a happy goodbye: A hug, a kiss, and a smile can help your child feel safe as you leave.
- Keep it short and sweet: Long goodbyes can make things harder.
Helping with Nervous Feelings
Stay Calm and Confident
- Be brave for them: If you’re calm, your child will feel better too.
- Listen to their feelings: It’s okay for them to cry or feel nervous. Be there for hugs and kind words.
At Kia Mena Montessori Preschool, we’re here to make preschool a happy start to your child’s learning. With patience and love, your little one will soon feel excited and ready for this big new step.
If you want to learn more about Montessori education, find helpful parenting tips at Zero to Three, or see how play builds learning at NAEYC, check out these trusted websites.
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