Getting Ready for Your Child’s First Day of Preschool
Starting preschool is a big moment in your child’s life. It’s the beginning of fun learning, new friends, and a new routine. At Kia Mena Montessori in Beckenham, we know this can be an emotional time for both parents and kids. Don’t worry — feeling excited, nervous, or even a little sad is totally normal! Here are some easy tips to help you and your child get ready for their first day.
What Is Preschool and Why Is It Important?
Preschool is the first step in your child’s learning journey. Children usually start between ages three and five. It’s a place where they learn and play at the same time. Preschool helps kids get used to routines and build important skills while having fun.
Why Preschool Helps Your Child Grow
- Learn to Make Friends: Your child will meet other kids, share toys, and learn how to play together.
- Build New Skills: They’ll start learning numbers, letters, and art — all through fun.
- Understand Daily Routines: Things like snack time and clean-up time help your child get used to schedules.
If you’d like to learn more about how preschool helps children grow, Zero to Three has great resources for parents.
Helping Your Child Feel Ready
Talk About Going to Preschool
- Read Books Together: Stories like “Llama Llama Misses Mama” help children feel ready and confident.
- Keep It Positive: Talk about fun things they’ll do like painting, playing outside, or meeting new friends.
Visit the School
- Take a Tour: Visiting Kia Mena Montessori before school starts lets your child see their new classroom and meet their teachers.
- Be Familiar: Knowing the space helps kids feel less nervous on day one.
Practice Being Independent
- Self-Care: Teach simple tasks like washing hands, putting on shoes, or buttoning clothes.
- Short Separations: Try short playdates with friends — it can help them get used to being away from you.
Visit NAEYC for fun ways to help young kids build independence.
Get Ready With Simple Daily Routines
Create a Morning Routine
- Practice getting up, eating breakfast, and getting dressed on time.
- Say goodbye in a calm way so your child knows what to expect.
Stick to Bedtimes
Good sleep makes mornings easier. Set a bedtime and wake-up time that gives your child enough rest.
Label All Their Things
Put your child’s name on their backpack, coat, and water bottle. This helps teachers and teaches kids about owning their stuff!
Keep Them Healthy
- Healthy Snacks: Pack balanced meals with fruits, proteins, and healthy grains.
- Check Health Info: Make sure their vaccines are up to date before starting school. You can read more at the NHS website.
Helping Your Child Make Friends
Play Some Pretend
- Pretend to play “school” together. Act out turns, sharing, and waiting in line.
- Use teamwork in games so they learn how to work with others.
Set Up Playdates
Invite a few children over so your child can practice making friends before school starts.
Teach Kind Words
- Practice saying “please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me.”
- Encourage your child to ask questions and talk about their feelings.
Helping Parents Feel Ready, Too
Learn About Preschool
Read up on what to expect in preschool. Knowing more helps you stay calm and ready. Check out Scholastic for parenting tips and activities for preschool-aged kids.
Stay Positive
- Children take cues from you. If you stay happy and relaxed, they’re more likely to feel the same.
- Celebrate their big step with a special breakfast or high-five! Let them know you’re proud.
Keep in Touch With the School
- Talk often with teachers about how your child is doing.
- Connect with other parents for playdates and helpful tips.
First Day Tips
On the First Morning
- Stay calm and cheerful.
- Give a short pep talk to remind your child how fun school will be today.
Drop-Off Tips
- Say goodbye with a hug, kiss, or secret handshake, then leave with a smile.
- Don’t drag out goodbyes—it can make it harder for your child.
After School
- Celebrate their first day with a treat, stickers, or extra playtime.
- Ask open-ended questions like “What did you play with today?” or “Who did you sit next to?”
Final Thoughts
Preschool is a big step, and with some planning, it can be a fun and happy time for everyone. At Kia Mena Montessori, we’re here to help make this a great start to your child’s school journey. Remember, staying positive and involved makes a big difference.
Great Resources for Parents
- Books Kids Will Love:
- “The Night Before Preschool” by Natasha Wing
- “Miss Bindergarten Gets Ready for Kindergarten” by Joseph Slate
- “My First Day at Nursery School” by Becky Edwards
- Check Mumsnet for parent tips and real-life stories from other families.
- Schedule a visit to Kia Mena Montessori to meet our welcoming team and explore the classrooms.
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