5 Essential Tips for Parents as Their Toddler Starts Preschool

Welcome to the Preschool Adventure!

Getting ready for preschool is a big step for toddlers and parents! If you’ve been through late-night diaper changes and snack-time surprises, you know being a parent is full of ups and downs. Now, it’s time to get ready for something new—starting preschool! At Kia Mena Montessori, we’re here to help make this change smooth and fun for your family. Let’s look at five helpful tips to make your child’s move to preschool easier!

1. Get Ready Before Preschool Starts

Starting preschool can feel scary, but you can help your child feel excited and ready with a few simple steps:

  • Talk About It: Chat with your child about what preschool is like. Talk about playtime, snack time, nap time, and fun games they’ll enjoy.
  • Visit the School: Bring your child to visit Kia Mena Montessori or their future school ahead of time. Seeing the classroom and meeting teachers can help them feel more comfortable.
  • Pretend Play: Practice being in school with games at home. Take turns being the teacher and student, so your child knows what to expect.
  • Read Books About Preschool: Look for fun books where characters go to preschool. Stories help kids learn what preschool is all about.

Want more great books to read before preschool? Check out this list of top preschool books for kids.

2. Start a Simple Routine

Having a regular routine helps your child feel safe and know what comes next. Here are some things to try:

  • Set a Morning Schedule: Do the same things each morning—like brushing teeth, getting dressed, and eating breakfast.
  • Stick to a Bedtime: Make sure your child sleeps enough so they wake up happy and ready to learn.
  • Eat Healthy: Plan meals that give your child energy to learn, play, and grow.
  • Practice Being Apart: Try leaving your child with a trusted adult for short times to help them get used to saying goodbye.

Want to learn why routines matter so much? Read more on why routines help preschoolers.

3. Talk with Your Child’s Teachers

Preschool works best when parents and teachers work together. Here’s how to stay connected:

  • Introduce Yourself: Meet the teachers and say hello. This builds trust between you and the school.
  • Share Important Info: Tell teachers about allergies, favorite toys, or things your child may need help with.
  • Ask Questions: Attending school meetings and asking questions helps you know how your child is doing.
  • Pick a Way to Stay in Touch: Find out if the school likes to talk by phone, email, or an app. That way, you’ll stay updated easily.

Read more about good parent-teacher communication on Edutopia.

4. Help Your Child Grow Emotionally and Socially

Going to preschool helps kids learn how to make friends and share feelings. You can help by:

  • Encouraging Independence: Let your child try getting dressed, putting things away, or washing hands by themselves.
  • Planning Playdates: Having fun with other kids teaches your child how to share and take turns.
  • Talking About Feelings: Teach your child how to say when they’re happy, sad, or nervous so they can talk about their day.
  • Being a Role Model: Show your child how to be kind and helpful by doing it yourself.

You can also use puppets or storytime to practice naming feelings. Want more ideas? Visit Child Mind Institute for tips on social development.

5. Stay Positive and Celebrate Progress

Preschool is a big change, but being positive can help your child feel excited. Try these tips:

  • Be Happy About School: Talk about preschool in a fun and cheerful way to help your child feel excited.
  • Give Reassurance: Remind your child you’ll be there after school, so they know they’re safe.
  • Celebrate Little Wins: Clap and cheer for your child when they say goodbye easily, make a craft, or try something new.
  • Be Patient: Some kids take time to adjust. That’s okay. Keep giving hugs and support as they learn.

Get more positive parenting tips from Verywell Family.

Let the Preschool Fun Begin!

Starting preschool is the beginning of a fun adventure! With a little planning, lots of love, and the right support, your child will be ready to learn and grow. At Kia Mena Montessori, we’re here to help every step of the way. Come join our community—we’re all growing and learning together!


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