Getting Ready for Preschool
Starting preschool is a big step! It’s exciting but can also feel a little scary for both kids and parents. At Kia Mena Montessori, we believe that getting ready the right way can make this transition smooth and happy. When children feel ready, they enjoy learning, and parents feel more relaxed too!
Understanding the Big Change
Preschool is the first big move toward being more independent. It’s okay if your child—or you—feel nervous. Talk about your feelings and remember that everyone goes through this change. Starting a new routine may feel tough at first, but you’ll both get the hang of it soon.
1. Pick the Right Preschool
Choosing the best preschool for your child is important. Every school is different. Some focus on play, others follow the Montessori method. Make a list of things that matter most to you—things like friendly teachers, fun activities, or lots of outdoor time. If you can, visit a few schools and meet the teachers.
We always welcome families to Kia Mena Montessori, so you can see if we’re the right fit.
You can also learn more about Montessori education to help guide your choice.
2. Talk About Preschool Together
Help your child feel excited about preschool by talking about what they’ll do—playing, making crafts, and meeting new friends. Read books about starting school like “The Kissing Hand” or “Llama Llama Misses Mama.” Let your child ask questions and share how they feel.
3. Start a Simple Routine
Try to create a morning routine before school starts. Practice waking up, getting dressed, and eating breakfast around the same time each day. Make it fun—try doing it like a game or race!
4. Teach Little Tasks
Let your child try simple things by themselves, like putting on shoes or washing their hands. This helps them feel grown-up and ready for school. If they can use the toilet or open their lunchbox, that’s a big win!
5. Make New Friends Early
If possible, arrange a playdate with someone who will be in the same class. Practice things like saying “Hi, my name is…” or asking, “Can I play?” This helps your child feel more comfortable talking to classmates.
You can also find great tips on social skills from NAEYC, an expert in early childhood learning.
6. Visit the Classroom
Seeing the preschool before the first day can really help. Go to open house events or orientation days. Let your child meet their teacher and see where they’ll play and learn. Knowing where the toilet or snack table is can help calm those first-day nerves!
7. Talk to the Teachers
Teachers want to help your child do their best. Tell them what your child likes, what makes them feel better when sad, and any allergies or medical needs. If your child needs to bring a favorite toy to nap with, let the teacher know.
Check out advice on talking with teachers from Scholastic Parents, too.
8. Label All Belongings
Put your child’s name on everything—coats, shoes, backpacks, even water bottles! This helps them keep track of their stuff and avoids mix-ups. Teach your child to look for their name and take care of their things.
9. Pack Something Special
Put a small comfort item in your child’s bag, like a photo or a soft toy. It can remind them of home and help them feel safe. Be sure the school allows it, and explain that it’s there just in case they need it.
10. Stay Positive and Keep Smiling
You’re your child’s biggest cheerleader! A happy smile and positive words from you help them feel brave. It’s normal to have a few tears or tough mornings, but each day gets easier. Celebrate little wins—like when they hang up their coat or say goodbye with a smile.
Final Thoughts
Preschool is an exciting new step. With some planning and lots of love, your child can feel ready and confident. At Kia Mena Montessori, we’re here to support you and your family during this new beginning. One day they’ll be finding their own way, but for now—they still need you by their side.
More Helpful Resources
- Find great parenting tips and early learning ideas at PBS Kids.
- Explore helpful guides and school prep tools from Scholastic Parents.
- Read parenting advice and child development info at Zero to Three.
This is just the beginning of a wonderful journey. With your support, your preschooler will be ready to make new friends, try new things, and shine bright every day!
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